In some gay sex positions the top leads the action, and in some the bottom takes the lead. If you’re versatile (and we encourage you all to be), lucky you, you can do both. We’re going to look at gay sex positions from the point of view of a top and a bottom. If you’re after more anal sex reading, here’s another general guide on how to have anal sex that covers douching, communication, lube and some other stuff. Most of these gay sex positions are anal sex positions, but there are some non-penetrative sexual positions at the end too. Whoever said physics was boring? Anal sex positions If you’re a tall man and the guy you’re having sex with is much shorter, you’ll be able to fuck in positions that a pair of beefy fellas wouldn’t find comfortable.Īt the end of the day it’s all about angles, different levels of flexibility and being able to hold or change positions. And for once, we’re not talking about cocks. What works for you and your partner/s will depend on your shape and size. This guide to the four most accessible – and we reckon most pleasurable – gay sex positions will help get you started.īefore we get stuck into how to stick it in, we’d always condone safer sex and recommend you read our guide to PrEP, and always use condoms when having sex.
But where to start? What feels best? How do you gay men have sex? As anyone who’s ever had gay sex, thought about gay sex or watched gay sex will know there are endless combinations possible gay sex positions.
